Why Not! Mutual Consensual directly Assertive. Always.
Don't Complicate Dating.
I only choose women who are curious,
worldly and well learned,
I find the depth of their lived experiences magnetically attractive.
A woman who can hold a wide ranging deep,
yet flirty, conversation about most things,
even those outside of her immediate interest or expertise.
Women who are open, broad minded,
want to learn more,
A wild woman who keeps fun light hearted facts,
a demure and alluring vixen
who is both open minded and yet mysterious.
I enjoy her non serious light hearted paradoxical energy.
Real Women who do not play games
aren't complex puzzles you need to struggle with.
They are direct and will clearly indicate what they already require in a casual date,
a summer fling,
A rotating cupboard of on tap fuck buddies,
or even a potential partner.
Men then have 2 Options:
- Spend rest of your life trying hard to figuring them out, thinking is this the “one” and over thinking and getting absolutely nowhere.
- Or you can access your own simple,
raw and equally attractive animal magnetism immediately. Go for it style, nothing to lose. Because there really is nothing to lose. It is always a win win for both. If they already know who they are… that is…
Be assertive, be direct,
be flirty and always safely kind and
most of all realise any woman you actually want to date and take to bed will be emotionally available, discerningly intelligent and fully open to a mutual exploration of not knowing where this may lead!
Simple and easy mutual joy and mind blowing orgasms are a simple outcome… every time.
Love may even flourish & develop and change and shape shift over time.
Men,
You are always the captain of your own ship!
Be in charge.
Take charge.
Be assertive and lead.
Navigate confidently and stop sinking on the non existent head rocks!
If you notice how some people may not agree with your direct and liberating truth,
your sexual perspective or dating beliefs
That they may need to turn into a battle.
Possibly Puritanical, possibly self righteous, possibly stuck & staid in their own dead end “relationships” usually settling for less than they deserve (or nothing!) and simply going through the same same motions. There is enough room for it all, once we realise who you are and what you need and desire.
Go for it, connect not attach.
Go for it, open and confident.
Go for it, trusting your self fully.
Do not creep up or tippy toe around.
Do not attach and try to think your way into a “relationship”
This is a form of insincere manipulation & energy vampirism.
This may even become a draining attachment.
This attachment is ultimately boring and life stifling.
Don’t get trapped with a tied up tight anchor!
Rather than taking any of it on just clear the energy.
It’s not even about you.
Get off any train you may have boarded incorrectly early. If it ain’t where you ultimately wanna go, cut your losses and get off early…
Learning direct liberation and energy purification, how to release what doesn’t belong to you, as well as to release anything in your energy field that is participating in shallow drama, keeps you un focused, un grounded, closed and attached for short term opportunity.
