Pay Attention, Stand At Ease. Carry On... From Love NOT For Love.

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
Reassurance and words of affirmation move me. I’ll never tire of hearing warm words and being held in tender mutual care. I deeply appreciate conscious behaviors that provide that type of emotional connection but being overly considerate when your own core values are repeatedly violated isn’t healthy.

You’ll end up people pleasing, avoiding conflict, disregarding your boundaries and more. Stop considering everyone else for a second, and start considering yourself. Return to who you are and what you stand for and then normalize being ok if they like you and ok if they don't. The idea that we will be liked, validated, or approved of by everybody in life is delusional. Your vibe really does attract your tribe and like energy attracts like energy. Light hearted joy attracts light hearted joy whereas sad sack misery begets sad sack misery. Simply pay better attention and consciously practice remaining calm and not reacting to things that may trigger you, just observe it all and watch what happens. To accept and include does NOT mean to agree. Unless it is a direct and repeated violation of your own core. Then an immediate response like fuck off may be an appropriate. It is easy to discern what affect it has on your body, it is NOT about their intention, if you consciously listen and consciously receive and feel fully by simply feeling into the energy you receive. If it is not aligned, simply move on. 

Our mental health, peace, and happiness are more important than other people’s acceptance, opinions, or perceptions of us. Remaining true to who you are comes before being liked. People pleasing, procrastination, perfectionism and counterfeit empathy without boundaries are four dangers to selling your own true nature out. A sustainable deeper intimacy is connected common sense and aligned core values, also known as "everyday ordinary consciousness". Who am I really before the world told me who to be? 
Drop all that you are NOT and be the protected open hearted authentic you. Be From love not for love, cease the reaching, cease trying too hard to force a connection that is simply NOT genuine or mutual. Remain connected to your own true nature, BUT first you realize consciousness is your own true nature. The simplest thing on earth. 
Simple, core, foundational, grounded, centred, unwavering, unchanging, consciousness. 
Then once realized, chop wood, carry water, carry on. As you do. 
Light hearted why so serious? Unless it is... 

LIGHT HEARTED 💕 LIFE’S SENSUALITY

Share With Me A ...

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
Share With Me A ...   Moment, magics, atom made of minute time.    That spark, the bolt, a distant laughing rumble,   that fall, the rise, a luna sea, kept humble.   Your knots and wiles Your depths, shared smiles,   I want two still soft animal Be, let bodies simply move as rhythms of Live, Laugh, full Love.   Share with me a dance, the One Scene  Mother, maker. Bourne brave, she Humbles Me, momentum mystery, Nature.   Gift us silence, water, steaming rises, Gift us lessons, lava, molten flowing, Gift Us you, all coming fury share dance of grace Ours, a humbled natural story.   Txx  
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I Know No Thing...

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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What opens inside you when you're willing to entertain the possibility that things maybe different than you thought they were is what I call the great internal space; a place where you come to know that you don't know. This is really the entry point into the end of suffering: when you become conscious of the fact that you really don't know. I mean that you don't really know anything - that you really don't understand the world, you don't really understand each other, and you ... really don't understand yourself. This is such an obvious thing when we really take a moment and look around. When you look at the world that human beings have created and how we relate to each other, it's so obvious that we don't know anything at all. . Everybody's going around pretending like they really know things, pretending like they know what's real and what's not, pretending they know what's right, pretending they know who's wrong, ...
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HEART CONNECTED NOT MIND ATTACHED

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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Mmmm GEE!  SPOT ON🤣 Sex doesn't mean much to her, emotional connection does. She can go forever without physical intimacy . Physical desire isn't her primary need. Her body responds to her heart, not the other way around. When her mind isn't safe, her body won't be available. When her emotions aren't nurtured, her passion disappears. What she craves is mental and emotional safety . She needs to feel understood before she feels desired. She needs to feel heard before she feels wanted. She needs to feel valued before she feels attractive. She needs emotional intimacy before physical intimacy. She doesn't need you to tell her she's sexy. She needs you to tell her what you admire about her mind . She doesn't need you to desire her body. She needs you to appreciate her heart . HEART 💕 HEART I FELT ONE TRUE COMMUNION IN SHARED STILLNESS  IN SHARED SILENCE  WE CREATED IT  PHYSICALLY TOGETHER Mmmm… GEE THAT MEDITATION DO YOU REMEMBER?  IN YOUR NEW LOUNGE R...
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IT ALL BEGINS IN THE…

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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Beyond Attraction:  The Sacred Blueprint of Divine Love Within every soul , there are four energetic bodies : the physical, the emotional, the mental, and the spiritual. True fulfillment comes only when all four are brought into alignment . And so it is with love. And so it is with union. In karmic relationships , the pattern begins from the ground up— from the lower centres . A spark of physical attraction lights the fire. That fire stirs the emotions. The emotions seek meaning, leading to an intellectual connection. But if the spirit is not aligned, the bond will eventually unravel. Without spiritual harmony , the relationship becomes a house built on shifting sands— beautiful for a season, but doomed to collapse under the weight of its own imbalance. Divine union follows a different path. It begins not in the body, but in the spirit. It is the recognition of the soul — the ancient memory of two beings who were always meant to meet. A vibration before a thought. A knowing befor...
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CLASSIC MOMENTS.

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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KEEP ON TRUCKIN’  DESCEND DECENT GROUNDED GRACE TWO HEAVEN,  COME A GAIN?  Why yes!  I feel I will,  Joy attracts joy  🙏💕🙏   AUTHENTICITY . ALIGNMENT .   WHOLENESS . INTEGRITY .  1. People stare at you. 2. Kids like you. 3. Animals feel safe around you. 4. Strangers tell you their life stories. 5. The room's energy shifts when you walk in. 6. You irriate toxic people by being authentic . 7. People envy you, and you don't know why.
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