One, NOT Two
When the divine feminine rises in men,
we achieve qualities such as
empathy, intuition, emotional expression, self care, self love and we become more nurturing.
These qualities are natural in women but not so much in men.
Women often say that they want men to be more vulnerable,
openly expressive and to have the ability to connect on a deeper level.
Those are aspects of femininity and, generally, when a man
attempts to bring those aspects to the surface,
we are demeaned and called weak, pathetic, coward, gay, etc,
so we suppress our femininity
and revert back into our force full dis integrated egotistical masculine state.
For whole balanced men to be more compassionate or empathetic,
we need to be in a environment where we are supported and protected
from demeaning forms of ridicule and judgment.
Ironically enough,
that is exactly the same environment that women want in order to feel safe.
Men are often loners and stubborn
so if we can't do something by ourselves
then we just won't do it or we'll suffer through it alone.
The act of asking for help or participating in a collaborative situation is a feminine trait.
Men, in general, are highly logical so in order for us to access our intuition and inner wisdom,
we need to bring our feminine traits to the surface.
To integrate wholly and be unwavering as the consciousness.
This will allow us to enter a state of cohesion between our mental and emotional faculties.
The old archetypes of what a man is supposed to be is conditioned into us from birth,
often in very abusive or limiting ways,
alcohol, sport, porn, gaming, gambling, sex,
to dominate and control and do whatever it takes.
These attached narrow mind sets and sometimes addictions
to these limited and old world restrictive views of masculinity,
often lead to women feeling unheard or unseen or worse, unsafe.
Women find it hard to be heard, included or accepted
so they start to take on more aggressive masculine traits to simply survive.
Women then compete and control and contest and come from a place of lack
to protect and feel "safe".
Women can take on more and more masculine traits
to simply survive or be seen and heard and feel safe
and then sometimes they can lose (or NOT even learn)
the ability to be rooted in their natural feminine energy.
It takes a lot of strength and courage
to overcome the fear of being judged by others
for becoming energetically whole
as whole men integrate a wiser kinder feminine energy
and whole women integrate their wiser kinder masculine energy.
This then becomes "consciousness"
Two sides of the one coin.
Neither better or worse than the other,
BUT both sides needed to make
ONE coin.
We don't need the harsh judgement
of the ardent feminist based mentalities
that is prevalent in the world,
especially on social media.
Women,
men simply want your understanding,
your consciousness,
your empathy and your help
to achieve that balanced gender dynamic.
If you're not willing to give that to YOUR self first
and the allow us to be that as well
then I do not have much faith in the
wholeness of the collective consciousness of humanity.
Each one simply reflects
and goes within
To Be The Change They Wish To Be.
And that change is?
Unwavering unadulterated consciousness.
One Pure and simple integrated wholeness.
One unattached to mind or intellect or complex head "philosophies"
One Wild and wickedly innocent intuition.
One fully feeling right now moment,
One simple common ordinary totality.
CONSCIOUSNESS
In many forms
In many guises
What integrated
multi dimensional
True natured
wholeness
are you coming from?
Right now?
Some of mine are…
But that’s not all
Motor racing
Rugby league
Water skiing
Fishing
Libraries
Reading
Dancing theatre opera house
Picnics food fun wineries
plus rest & rise & reflect & repeat
Oh,
I almost forgot
Plus
Bikes and bush and remote mountain tops
Yes, the fruit does not fall far from the trees!
Thanks Bob n Agnes and Robyn
A Fine life learning travelling exploring more
Not perfect
Just simple common ordinary
All
From love
Not for love
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