Are you A "Love and Light", "Pleasant and Nice" Bypass Junky?
“These mountains that you’re carrying, you were only supposed to climb.” Najwa Zebian Is Happiness overrated? “Good vibes only” is just plain laziness. Get out from underneath the burden of needing to be happy and positive all the time. That’s too much weight to be carrying around. Take it easy on yourself. Stop being so damn serious. Especially about happiness, positivity, and love. You’re not perfect and you never will be. Neither will anybody else. ... Your “love & light” could use a little “grit & darkness.” Forcing yourself to be positive and happy all the time is just an ego trap set up by the scared-shitless part of you that doesn’t want to face the shitty, shadowy, scary side of life. It’s a strategic safezone propped up by cowardice and weakness. Stop sugarcoating bullshit. Stop demonizing sadness. You cannot be happy all the time. Happiness, like sadness, is a passing storm across the sky of the Sel...