From Love NOT For Love.
You can try to suppress truth,
These simple tenants are my basic attitude towards reality,
A liberated being
a total non attachment,
a freedom from any version of people pleasing,
a freedom from perfectionism
a freedom from counterfeit empathy without standards.
Or boundaries.
To be connected to my own unwavering self worth,
without enmeshment,
without mind attachment and
without enabling or supporting any harmful behaviour choices.
Anything not in alignment with my OWN unwavering core values
will simply be placed where it best belongs.
Not bad. Not evil. Not wrong.
Just not for me.
Like energy attracts like energy.
Freedom attracts freedom.
Uniqueness attracts uniqueness.
From Love attracts from love.
Plus my non negotiable core values;
Meditation
Non-seriousness (unless it is)
Playfulness
Creativity
Light hearted ness.
Grateful
Joyful
Respectful
A feeling of the mysterious
and connection to a higher source.
Let go of twin flames.
And all the other so-called
spiritualized matrix ideas.
They’re distractions.
Endlessly anchoring you to projections.
Drop all attached concepts.
Freshen UP.
Time to be honest with yourself.
Rise UP.
To focus on the real.
This ONE moment right now.
And do the simple reflective inner work.
When your attached mind is filled with too many theories.
Or Beliefs.
Or complex ideologies.
With no direct experience and
clarity of your own True Natured Being.
You are filled with righteousness.
You become clogged up
with complex,
noisy theories,
intellectual Beliefs
and out dated old ways.
Left overs from a bygone day.
Sadly still stuck in compare, compete, contest and control.
Thinking YOUR way to con fusion.
And you eventually get depleted by these mind attachments.
You fall into the attached dis integrated trap of thinking.
You get drained by those thinking they know you.
By those telling you who to be.
By those on a completely different timeline or trajectory.
Leave them be.
They all are ok.
All perfect as they already are.
All in their own good time they may simplify.
They may let go.
They may realise there already is nothing to realise.
Theory and belief and mind attachments do not lead to consciousness.
Simple awareness,
Common core values
knowledge and direct experience do.
FROM LOVE DEMANDS WHOLENESS and VULNERABILITY
Some people drift from one relationship to another,
always skimming the surface.
They seem to embrace freedom,
but in truth,
they’re avoiding the risk that comes with genuine intimacy.
Real love demands vulnerability;
it asks us to face the discomfort
of revealing our true selves
and to be open to the possibility of pain.
To truly connect with another,
we must allow ourselves to be seen deeply
and let the other person reach into our depths as well.
This kind of love isn’t casual;
it’s a profound exchange that connects two hearts beyond the surface.
In our world today,
it’s easy to stay on the run,
avoiding commitment,
hopping from one partner to the next draining encounter
to the next partner before messy vulnerable emotions get involved.
Many fear getting too entangled,
afraid that the heartache will be too great if things fall apart.
Yet, this avoidance keeps us from maturing,
from discovering the courage and strength
that come with real emotional risk.
Maturity in love doesn’t come from staying safe;
it arises when we embrace the challenge,
when we’re willing to face the complexities of true connection.
Love, after all, is not for the faint-hearted.
It’s a journey that teaches us resilience,
empathy, and the depth of our own being.
From unwavering self love first,
not trying to fix or heal or advise
then sharing whole and holy
then sharing sacred and divine
then sharing a kind and aligned energy
a mutual energetic overflow
with an energetic equal.