Consciousness.


Consciousness is not about taking a chance on anything. 

Consciousness is a deep embodiment of truth. 

Consciousness is simple. 

You already realise  there is nothing to realise. 

Wholeness. It is all ok. In one benign universe. 

Standards. Ethics. 

Common empathy & decency. 

Imperfection. It is all included.

 The universe does not judge right or wrong, 

it simply has aligned relating priorities. 

Totality as Maya Luna, performance poet,  states “All Of You” is welcome here. I love her perspective long time. Search her out on bandcamp. 

From love not for love 

I will never give up on you 

Unwavering pure n simple wild wicked aligned joy! 

No expectations 

Fierce compassion  

Beyond reason. 

Gracious open heart 

Beyond “healing” 

Wildly compassionate 

Relating and partnerships 

and business transactions have certain ways of “doing” things. 

You sell me a deal a dream a product or service 

I accept the terms & conditions 

Contracts exchanged 

Process followed 

Deal done 

Money changes hands (money is just an energy) 

Signed sealed delivered 

Move on

Hope fully both or all parties satisfied 

Some people even conduct their romantic lives like this. 

Expectations 

Transactional 

Business deals 

Marriage con tracks 

With an expected Supply of money sex comfort, security…

Or whatever else non communication dreams up… 

Routine ruts regular routes and hamster wheels 

“Life gets busy”

no no no 

That is utter bullshit!

A lame excuse a projection a cop out 

Life is simply paying attention 

To mutual communication of priorities 

Nothing is too challenging to share 

when both are coming from a receptive listening as love. 

This from love must be regular

This from love is not ignored 

This from love is not kept quite, hidden or silent. 

The one who loves the least controlling the deal… 

The one who thinks they know, assuming. 

The one attached to having all their needs met but not considering how their equal partner may be affected. 

Speaking your kind truth is essential. 

Being heard and received as you really are (consciousness) 

Is absolutely foundational. 

That core valued needs to be aligned (not identical) 

That consciousness needs to be mutual. 

That simple common ordinary grounded divinity needs to be mutual and clearly articulated. Often. 

Check in OFTEN. 

Be real. Be vulnerable. Be honest. 

How is your heart? 

And then STFU & listen! 

Believe them the first time. 

No advice

No healing 

No fixing 

Just listen and be. 

Let each other spill it all without judgement. 

Let each other vent and moan and bitch without interruption. 

Let each other clear any somatic energy so it does not linger. 

Cease the forcing. 

Cease the telling. 

Cease the reaching. 

Cease the intellectual transactions. 


Definitely do not assume. 

Maybe taking each other for granted. 

Not evil. Just unconscious. 


Maybe settling into busy busy busy mind attachments 

Not bad. Just unconscious. 

Maybe attached to the mind not paying attention in this moment. 

 Not wrong. Just unconscious. 


Of course 

Be willing to be flexible 

and make allowances and create for your beloved 

extra breathing space as needed 

whilst they undergo extra stress or worry or health issues

 or busy busy busy working schedules. 


Pay attention and ask better questions. 

Seek clarity. 

Do not assume.

Do not make believe. 

Do not pre judge. 

Simply communicate openly your truths. 

That is real intimacy. 

Lighten up 

Why so serious! 

Sufi mystics do not care for any

attachment theories & pop-psychology terms.

Keep any limited Western ethnocentric “beliefs” away 

from simple spiritual teachings on divine love. 

Do not colonize or attempt to convert 

Any true mystical relationships 

with the true nature of Consciousness 

Do not limit or reduce 

One creature in one Creation 

with any limits, any lack of 

heart-centered awareness.

From love not for love is my only 

Love language. 

Wholeness

Divinity

Sacred 

Beloved. 

Simple. 


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Now to be lit from within. 

Authors who challenge me to consider. 

Charlie & Henry. 

Two improper imperfect honest stoners & drunks who did not hold back. But truth? Hell yes! Read their bibles. More than one good conversionist book there…  

 “The free soul is rare, but you know it when you see it - basically because you feel good, very good, when you are near or with them.”


— Charles Bukowski


People need to understand how to love an introvert. You don't need to break their shell to know them deeper because breaking a turtle's shell kills them. Know them by loving them to the extent that they crawl out to you, and once they let you in, don't break their trust and love them with every inch of your soul, and they will love you back with a love that is deeper than love.”


You know the typical crowd, Wow, it’s Friday night, what are you going to do? Just sit there? Well, yeah. Because there’s nothing out there. It’s stupidity. Stupid people mingling with stupid people. Let them stupidify themselves. I’ve never been bothered with the need to rush out into the night. That’s all. Sorry for all the millions, but I’ve never been lonely. I like myself. I’m the best form of entertainment I have."


-- Charles Bukowski


The wisdom of age constitutes the ability to accept reality, which is the knowledge of certain death--substantial, personal, individual extinction. It no longer seeks to disguise the fundamental cruelty and terror of life because it is too weary for further struggle. It is not the acceptance of destiny so much, as the succumbing to it... It's not pessimism but a joyous acceptance of life!


-- Henry Miller


May you have the maturity and wisdom not to take people’s wounds personally. Charlie & Henry showed me that back in 1981 when I first started wondering. 


We encounter each other at various points of the growth process and get to choose if we want to walk together. That is a sign of consciousness. 


Poetry & literature have always provided that for me since those much cherished bed time Dr suess stories. Thanks mum! 😍


And no, I did not like her hat either… 


But the public order & police riot squad may be a BIT over the top…🤣🤣


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