Consciousness.
Consciousness is a deep embodiment of truth.
Consciousness is simple.
You already realise there is nothing to realise.
Wholeness. It is all ok. In one benign universe.
Standards. Ethics.
Common empathy & decency.
Imperfection. It is all included.
The universe does not judge right or wrong,
it simply has aligned relating priorities.
Totality as Maya Luna, performance poet, states “All Of You” is welcome here. I love her perspective long time. Search her out on bandcamp.
From love not for love
I will never give up on you
Unwavering pure n simple wild wicked aligned joy!
No expectations
Fierce compassion
Beyond reason.
Gracious open heart
Beyond “healing”
Wildly compassionate
Relating and partnerships
and business transactions have certain ways of “doing” things.
You sell me a deal a dream a product or service
I accept the terms & conditions
Contracts exchanged
Process followed
Deal done
Money changes hands (money is just an energy)
Signed sealed delivered
Move on
Hope fully both or all parties satisfied
Some people even conduct their romantic lives like this.
Expectations
Transactional
Business deals
Marriage con tracks
With an expected Supply of money sex comfort, security…
Or whatever else non communication dreams up…
Routine ruts regular routes and hamster wheels
“Life gets busy”
no no no
That is utter bullshit!
A lame excuse a projection a cop out
Life is simply paying attention
To mutual communication of priorities
Nothing is too challenging to share
when both are coming from a receptive listening as love.
This from love must be regular
This from love is not ignored
This from love is not kept quite, hidden or silent.
The one who loves the least controlling the deal…
The one who thinks they know, assuming.
The one attached to having all their needs met but not considering how their equal partner may be affected.
Speaking your kind truth is essential.
Being heard and received as you really are (consciousness)
Is absolutely foundational.
That core valued needs to be aligned (not identical)
That consciousness needs to be mutual.
That simple common ordinary grounded divinity needs to be mutual and clearly articulated. Often.
Check in OFTEN.
Be real. Be vulnerable. Be honest.
How is your heart?
And then STFU & listen!
Believe them the first time.
No advice
No healing
No fixing
Just listen and be.
Let each other spill it all without judgement.
Let each other vent and moan and bitch without interruption.
Let each other clear any somatic energy so it does not linger.
Cease the forcing.
Cease the telling.
Cease the reaching.
Cease the intellectual transactions.
Definitely do not assume.
Maybe taking each other for granted.
Not evil. Just unconscious.
Maybe settling into busy busy busy mind attachments
Not bad. Just unconscious.
Maybe attached to the mind not paying attention in this moment.
Not wrong. Just unconscious.
Of course
Be willing to be flexible
and make allowances and create for your beloved
extra breathing space as needed
whilst they undergo extra stress or worry or health issues
or busy busy busy working schedules.
Pay attention and ask better questions.
Seek clarity.
Do not assume.
Do not make believe.
Do not pre judge.
Simply communicate openly your truths.
That is real intimacy.
Lighten up
Why so serious!
Sufi mystics do not care for any
attachment theories & pop-psychology terms.
Keep any limited Western ethnocentric “beliefs” away
from simple spiritual teachings on divine love.
Do not colonize or attempt to convert
Any true mystical relationships
with the true nature of Consciousness
Do not limit or reduce
One creature in one Creation
with any limits, any lack of
heart-centered awareness.
From love not for love is my only
Love language.
Wholeness
Divinity
Sacred
Beloved.
Simple.
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Now to be lit from within.
Authors who challenge me to consider.
Charlie & Henry.
Two improper imperfect honest stoners & drunks who did not hold back. But truth? Hell yes! Read their bibles. More than one good conversionist book there…
“The free soul is rare, but you know it when you see it - basically because you feel good, very good, when you are near or with them.”
— Charles Bukowski
People need to understand how to love an introvert. You don't need to break their shell to know them deeper because breaking a turtle's shell kills them. Know them by loving them to the extent that they crawl out to you, and once they let you in, don't break their trust and love them with every inch of your soul, and they will love you back with a love that is deeper than love.”
You know the typical crowd, Wow, it’s Friday night, what are you going to do? Just sit there? Well, yeah. Because there’s nothing out there. It’s stupidity. Stupid people mingling with stupid people. Let them stupidify themselves. I’ve never been bothered with the need to rush out into the night. That’s all. Sorry for all the millions, but I’ve never been lonely. I like myself. I’m the best form of entertainment I have."
-- Charles Bukowski
The wisdom of age constitutes the ability to accept reality, which is the knowledge of certain death--substantial, personal, individual extinction. It no longer seeks to disguise the fundamental cruelty and terror of life because it is too weary for further struggle. It is not the acceptance of destiny so much, as the succumbing to it... It's not pessimism but a joyous acceptance of life!
-- Henry Miller
May you have the maturity and wisdom not to take people’s wounds personally. Charlie & Henry showed me that back in 1981 when I first started wondering.
We encounter each other at various points of the growth process and get to choose if we want to walk together. That is a sign of consciousness.
Poetry & literature have always provided that for me since those much cherished bed time Dr suess stories. Thanks mum! 😍
And no, I did not like her hat either…
But the public order & police riot squad may be a BIT over the top…🤣🤣
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