@entertheunseen by gina näuman • جینا نعمان
"Lately, I’ve been being called to shatter illusions as it relates to false truths & false teachings perpetuated in the spiritual community, the mainstream mental healthcare community, the pop-psychology community, & the integrative, holistic wellness community.
So many things that the 3D matrix calls “healthy” are actually anything but that. My spiritual teacher once told me, “There are more false teachings, false teachers, false healers & false medicines than there are real ones” — & I have not been able to stop thinking about this ever since.
Anxious-attachment & avoidant-attachment style discourse is one such paradigm that maybe started off with good intentions, but has since gone off the rails. There are now 263739202 attachment styles, 26373829 therapists & spiritual practitioners running a brand on its associated convoluted teachings & I’m seeing too many cult-like communities where people are too rigidly attached to labels that were only meant to be temporary descriptors for symptoms of nervous system dysregulation.
So, I’m sharing a few words here on the importance of evolution & transcendence in developing SECURE attachment styles — which undeniably impacts how you connect with your people, develop community & show up in the world. Building into a paradigm of secure attachment has implications far beyond just romantic relationships.
It’s time to retire rigidly attaching your identity to unhealed pop-psych terms & conflating symptoms of dysregulation (avoidance, dissociation, codependency, anxious-clinging, etc.) with whether or not someone is the good guy or the bad guy in a story. Much of the discourse around these paradigms aren’t even nuanced or inclusive of our atypical thinkers & feelers — like neurodivergents, LGBQT+, different cultures/faiths, etc.
Embodying Love is & has always been the mission. I invite you to focus more deeply on this work, & see for yourself how your evolution transforms the way you show up in the world, the kind of community you choose to foster, & the brand new ways you learn to intimately relate to others in connections of all kinds."
gina näuman • جینا نعمان
Writer & Poetess. Psychospiritual Alchemist. Healer.
Sufi Seeker, Ashiq. Nature Mystic. Highly Sensitive Seer. AuDHD.
So many things that the 3D matrix calls “healthy” are actually anything but that. My spiritual teacher once told me, “There are more false teachings, false teachers, false healers & false medicines than there are real ones” — & I have not been able to stop thinking about this ever since.
Anxious-attachment & avoidant-attachment style discourse is one such paradigm that maybe started off with good intentions, but has since gone off the rails. There are now 263739202 attachment styles, 26373829 therapists & spiritual practitioners running a brand on its associated convoluted teachings & I’m seeing too many cult-like communities where people are too rigidly attached to labels that were only meant to be temporary descriptors for symptoms of nervous system dysregulation.
So, I’m sharing a few words here on the importance of evolution & transcendence in developing SECURE attachment styles — which undeniably impacts how you connect with your people, develop community & show up in the world. Building into a paradigm of secure attachment has implications far beyond just romantic relationships.
It’s time to retire rigidly attaching your identity to unhealed pop-psych terms & conflating symptoms of dysregulation (avoidance, dissociation, codependency, anxious-clinging, etc.) with whether or not someone is the good guy or the bad guy in a story. Much of the discourse around these paradigms aren’t even nuanced or inclusive of our atypical thinkers & feelers — like neurodivergents, LGBQT+, different cultures/faiths, etc.
Embodying Love is & has always been the mission. I invite you to focus more deeply on this work, & see for yourself how your evolution transforms the way you show up in the world, the kind of community you choose to foster, & the brand new ways you learn to intimately relate to others in connections of all kinds."
gina näuman • جینا نعمان
Writer & Poetess. Psychospiritual Alchemist. Healer.
Sufi Seeker, Ashiq. Nature Mystic. Highly Sensitive Seer. AuDHD.
