You Know Who You Are
You deserve a calm considerate love, connected with one who sees you, hears you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. From love, not for love. Discern the simple whole, difference.
One who already is the total simple consciousness. One true natured being who is considerate, committed, compassionate, listens and receives and communicates needs clearly.
A true equal partnership where intentionally, on purpose, both lead and follow, co - creating a caring, strong, safe space to share, to grow, and joyously bloom together. You have each others backs, as best friends firstly, and there are no limits as to what you may co create and co achieve.
From the completeness of a tender and adoring love, you consciously choose to relate with and co partner moment to moment, you check in regularly and ask "How is your heart feeling?" no matter what external storms may come to test the innate stillness of a deeply oceanic, yet flowing connection. Simply listen with all your heart. Simply create a safe space to Be exactly as you are right now. Understanding is over rated, so do NOT try to understand if it is currently beyond you. Simply trust that all is OK exactly as it is right now, trust and listen that your beloved will figure things out and has got their own back, firstly. Do not get anxious or depressed or frustrated trying to force or fix or heal or advise. Simply be there for them, unconditionally creating a loving space does NOT mean unconditional tolerance of harsh words or biting sarcasm or lack of intentional consciousness with addictions, afflictions and force full set in any uncompromising ways. Simply accept, NOT necessarily agree, to any non harmful choices to The True Natured Self or others. Witness and listen, more than you speak. Simply also spend quality time a part, doing what lights you up, as in that liminal growing space between you, a stronger connection truly grows as both reflect and come back fresh and enlivened to share their excitements. Watch how your partner responds to your shared good news for that should be the easiest indication of a heart to heart connection. Of course hold space for the challenges you may both face as well, but if a partner cannot get excited and positive and supportive when YOU are, it may be time to re evaluate the "friendship."
That co created all inclusive current will only warm and get deeper the more intention you shine on the mutual waters. It is all OK, all included, accept NOT agree, as we choose how we relate, moment to moment, from love, not for love.
