Connect To A Partner NOT Attach To A Project, From Love NOT For Love.

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— Synexdoche (@amor_fatti) June 21, 2024

Feminine Energy is From Love Not For Love,
constantly flowing, a creative chaotic beauty. 

Masculine energy is consciousness, 

creates calm inner space to meet and greet 

and hold The Loving Storm

Femimine energy is wild, not feral.
one wild unrestrained but connected 

over flowing from love. 

True Nature Feminine is NOT feral 

nor attached nor seeking nor needing 

a project for love.

Ture Nature One whole True Wild of Raw Beauty,
No facades, no charades, no masks, no veils

Not biting or spiting or feral fear full. 

Masculine energy is unwavering, unadulterated, 

raw and roar as needed, always also from love

as an intentionally kind.

Masculine energy is one whole consciousness, 

pure and strong and acutely listening, responsive, 

not reactive, ever ready To Support and 

Show Up where received, not caged nor contolled

Feminine is a Wild true natured energy, 

roaming, wondering, co creating 

moment to moment

more flowing freedoms,
protecting and raising her cubs 

above all else.

Masculine energy is on point, 

is visible, is assertive, is light and direct and simple, 

not loud, just core values, 

like light, repeating.

Feminine energy is multi faceted, shape shifting, 

not tamed or trained or chained domesticated.
Feminine grace is Not trapped, Not snared, 

Not survival feral and out of her true beauty wilderness.

Masculine energy is simple, common, 

ordinary and everywhere. He is direct and 

creates and builds and supports and provides. 

He is god like, 

a gentle warrior beast, 

not seeking, not chasing, 

not spruiking or hard selling. 
True Natured Masculine re integrated one whole, 

knows who he is and knows what he deserves.
Wild and wilderness pays attention, 

stands at ease and surrendered 

heart open connected.

He sees as a telescope, 

reverts as needed to a microscope 

all in accepting the feminines kaleidoscope.

He discerningly chooses witch lens to see
he zooms out for perspective 

all the telescopic big pictures,
then goes down within an attention to detail, 

zooms in pays attention, 

for the smallest button prise,
he accepts and sees her bright crazy colours 

bright and from love connects 

to her kaleidoscopic crazy imperfect 

yet beauty filled patterns.

Masculine energy is Not running around 

or aground looking for feral animals to save.
Masculine knows a well bred true bred 

ONE wild womanly fully wanton.

He will never settle for a feral survival, 

trapped trained and tightly limited 

small minded chained.
Masculine energy is patient and 

profound and self contained, 

willing to share and connect and support

where inner space is both gracious and

True Natured, receptively, 

warm not a warning. 

He is Grounded and centred and 

whole and unaddicted to the baby bottle or 

bongs or by pass airy fairy insecure try hard. 

Masculine does NOT try

he simply does and assets actions

where received and accepted

Not tried tethered wounds 

and emasculated. 

Masculine energy has cleared his addictions

his daddy and mummy wounds and childhood 

attachments

He is now sitting comfortably with uncertainty

trusts he can handle 

whatever priorities in discerning 

choices may lead to.

Simple, on point, knows what he does NOT want 
one total, one rock solid in 

A Discerning and Subtle, 

One Finely Nuanced Community 

The Shared Light House.

and then the co creation

the joining aligning 
She he are both from love not for love
He she are both true natured consciousness
She he know fully divinely who they are and take and give no shit
He she are not worriers not anxious not needy not depressed or regressed or up tight and stressed.
She he have each other backs in FULL 100% committed outrageous consideration
He she both pay (better) attention, listen, ask and enquire,

She he communicate easily, flowing interested and interesting.   

"How Can I Help?"
not how can I assume?
not how can I not be safe?
not calmly wildly consistent?
and simply hold a non judgmental preferred chosen space?

She he are openly receptive to assertive, assured, 

more shared adventures

know who they are (both from Love AND as consciousness) 

know what they DON'T want, 

know what they deserve and 

DO NOT settle for less.

She he are not insecure, not insipid, not tepid, 

not trained tightly chained and 

compete, compare, contest and control inn 

a by passing drippy leaky over sharing survivalist, 

full mangy and feral.

He she are
both wildly kind and gently direct
both let an intentionally conscious NVC lead,
both are emotionally mature and are open 

to growing and life long learning
both come from a range of intuitive multiple intelligences
both come from open heart to heart surrendered 

and tender and intentional communication

He provocatively offers "Are you Ok babe? 

you have not touched your books or potential yet..."
She simply smiling responds NOT feral reacts 

"Are you Ok babe, 

you have not kept your assumptions to your good self, yet..."
laugh and joy and harmless banter 

why so freaking serious? Unless it is...

lighten up broaden up 

see more receive more be more
don't get stuck in doom scrolling 

of new toys in the cot to buy happiness

 that is not yet from within

don't attach to old boy ties and old wives tales 

and old stale stuck like 5 minutes ago...

move on fresh flowing streams and bubbling brooks 

and wild rocky rapids and waters falling
dew point rest rise reflect steam it up 

heat some inner wilder waters up up up 

release the mist hiss hiss hiss

It is not like we are getting out of here alive 

so why wait or wither or worry about others

stay in your own lane
return and weed your own garden
ensure you are both coming
coming from a well deep,
coming from an unadulterated 

pure and simple 

wickedly aligned 

in a shared non needy mischief

coming from ONE heart and ONE soul
coming from wildly willing and 

unrestrained in each fresh moment to moment
coming from wholly not knowing 

not worried not caring for answers 

just feeling ONE connected love

(BOTH erudite, BOTH multiple intelligences, 

BOTH lit connected fully from within)

NOT attached for love...
attached to yet another potential project
attached to a fracture still stuck still shedding 

explosive suppressed koshas
attached to a mind attached split leaking 

fuck buddy warm bed distraction,
let's play hide and seek shall we?
Baby gurl she says 

"You try hard to hide the pork sausage 

while I'll seek the next cock tale?"

an adolescent game of convoluted kiss chasey? 

attached to thinking that is the game...
an adolescent game of honest stoners 

drunk lush by pass luck? 

still attached to thinking beliefs 

your pappa and mumma showed ewe?

an adolescent game of lost in a lush 

checked out waste of time?
attached to expert external labels or
attached to societal expectations or
attached to rule books written buy ewe and
attached thinking you know someone better 

than they already know their own consciousness?

She he divine aligned and kind who Already know THEM self
from a vast lived experience of easily learned 

less ons what they now will NOT settle for?

simply pay attention
feel and listen and observe the present energy
feel the intentions and witness the patterns of actions and
believe the choices of behaviours The First Time 

and then grow to hear even 

more subtle, more nuanced, more refined, 

ignore the projecting insecure loud whiny

attachments

feel into the more nuanced
witness the more refinely alive
see the kindly refined actions in action
feel the whole from love simple 

common ordinary everywhere 

a wicked innocent wildness,

not for feral attached needy 

insipid tepid project adolescent 

leaky over share puppy "love"

feel into deeply one fully from ONE 

whole complete total consciousness 

of simple repeating kind considerate 

actions!

NOT a leaky desperate attached adolescent all for love (still)

now in a 40 or 50 or 60 year old mind set, 

a staid projecting set in his her ways, 

collecting puppy loves and still buying new toys 

and rattles and pacifiers and sucking dummies 

in a collected cot baby bottle attached 

societal old family traditions 

of a legacy distraction 

in a suppresed baby bottle body,

no excuses now,
let those old attached 

hoary genies out of the bottle

some people have not even started the 

free ownership of de conditioning
still attached to thats the way 

we've always done it

still attached to a certified 

piece of stale paper mache
still attached to old 

church way boys and
attached to old school yard girls and
attached to old familiar ways and
attached to conditioned society of a castle keep and
attached to living a half life 

enabled by enmeshed stoner mummy and
entitled buy a mini me drunken daddy 

and and and and on and on and on the attachments go

unconsciously all for attached love... AND
calling it living?

stop living the lie and level up
be honest what is your relationship like with consciousness? 

Is it fully connected? Yet?

do you know who you really are 

before the world told you who to be?

Consciousness NOT conscious.
without any inherited attachments or
without any inherited conditioning or
without any inherited following daddies 

and mummies and siblings UNCONSCIOUS wounds

who are YOU really beyond the conditioning?
and we have all been conditioned by family or care givers 

or society or village or beliefs of origin... 

don't say YOU are special and are a clean skin 

and have NO attached conditions.

who do you THINK you are...? 
"no no no, 

it must be all those others over there" 

it is all their fault

those others over there

pointing the attached finger

already proving how lost they still are.   

the attached stoner drunk 

who checks out and by passes with junk 

to lose the mind with external crutches. 

The going up 

on weed or ice or mushrroms 

or cocaine or depressed on alcohol 

is NOT even really the problem, 

Why do you want to escape in the first place? 

Patterns, conditions, know no other way? 

staying attached or addicted to false attached pattern and 

coming down to reality is... 

Why by pass at all? 

Why check out at all? 

Lacking courage and being still Scared and scarred 

and frightened to death of their conditioned unreality 

is usually the cause of attached affliction 

and desperate addiction and 

mummies enmeshment and 

sisters enabling and 

daddies entitlement and a 

bothers take take take do wahtever IT takes to win 

in a fractured leaky compare compete control 

and dominate and win win win 

in a try hard try harder try hardest 

an ignorance of true nature

in a societal lack of kind caring 

a lack of committed compassionate 

connected consciousness....

the attached people pleaser 

who tries ever so hard to be nice and good and compliant (and fake AF)
the attached counterfeit empath 

a swamp of feeling with NO discerning boundaries
the attached perfectionist 

who thinks 100% is perfect, 

how boring... how staid... how limiting...

the attached baby adolescent project 

keeper who hoards and controls and 

people pleasers

the attached church holier than thou 

who's shift don't even stink...
the attached racist, 

the attached misogynistic asshole, 

the attached ageist

all UNCONSCIOUSLY attached with INHERITED 

assumptions and beliefs and limitations to become 

clearer on and witness and hear and see and listen 

and then drop and let go of to create more discerning 

INNER space

a lush stoner drunk 

from an attached suppressed stress 

avoidance a void dance of reality?

assorted attached like 5 minutes ago 

of staid stuck projecting ways
let alone the excavation and weed pulling needed.
time to grow up and connect to a freely flowing

moment to moment alive intentional partner

NOT attach to yet another

unconscious leaky adolescent 

heavily conditioned project
with a raging feral whore moan of 

hook ups and swipe rites?

convenient convoluted comfort 

beige boring love (a feral survival 

but you'll do for now to project for now)

BOTH feminine and masculine energies, 

dancing lightly in the one and same connection

from love as one whole consciousness
She He are both lit from within
she he are both connected from their 

own collective wholeness

True Nature is CONSCIOUSNESS
True nature is simple common ordinary and everywhere
drop all the attachments be ever so simple get on with it
lit from within
not attached to less ons now learned

or less thans or less labelled energy 

yes yes yes to more life

let it shine

the light is already

yours!