Connect NOT Attach
- curiosity and self discipline for focus
- pay better attention
- avoid fractured distractions
- avoid anything that insults your soul or hurts your heart
- gentle preferences and priorities as boundaries, NOT harsh exclusionary walls.
When?
When a vibe is
Aligned & kind
When a vibe is
Grounded in similar
Core values
When a vibe
Is reality it is
Not so serious…
So
like attracts like
101 for beginners
101 for starters
101 as a tasty entree
Then
Mutuality
Compromise
Preferences & priorities
Are simple AND easy.
The Flow is natural,
NOT forced.
Like is a like
light attracts light
Like air it simply rises
Like sky it is limit less
Like fire it is glowing warmth
Like earth it envelops & is grounded
Like water it deeply encircles & flows
And what is the “it” ?
Consciousness !
Light Hearted
Joy for NO attached reason
Lightness and Laughter and Tears and Wholeness
It is all included and all OK
NOT taking your True Nature So Seriously
NOT getting stressed and worried and sleepless and anxious and depressed
Choose To Be Realise it is all OK
NO matter the passing, fleeting, momentary energy
And what is this whole authentic
“Consciousness”
That comes from integrity and alignment and a simple realisation?
Awareness of your own 100% wholeness
Consciousness is
Awareness of a non divisive NON split MIND fragmentation
Consciousness is
Awareness of non labelled non attached non dual
EVERYTHING flows shifts and changes
Consciousness is
Awareness of present moment awareness
Awareness of Being the observer of awareness
Consciousness is NOT a choice
It already IS
Simple common ordinary & everywhere
without having to do ONE goddamed THING.
Realise The common universal PIN code of "consciousness"
Realise NOT know
Realise is NOT intellectual
Realise is NOT attached mind
Realise is NOT split mind or fractured mind or energetically leaking mind
Realise a whole consciousness is the simplest most common and ordinary THING in existence.
Once you realise the PIN code is YOU!
There is NO path (to consciousness)
There is NO journey (to consciousness)
There is NO ATTACHMENT (to consciousness)
YOU already are The Consciousness, so chop wood carry water,
live laugh love, from love NOT for love, enough is enough
simply gently tenderly carry on FROM moment to moment
with NOTHING else attached
or to "think" you must or need to
realise.
Consciousness is who we all
Already are
No rituals
No healing
No convolutions
No wah wah
No leaky moaning victim crapola
No crisis to crisis
No drama
all innocent impish harmless mischief
No chaos
all joy
No convolutions
all play (even "work" can Be play)
No stuck staid depressive past
No ditzy doozy floozy future
No gold digging attachments
No leaky try hards
No gas lighting con troll freaks
No "thinking" you know whats gunna happen
moment to moment
There are NOW
No more questions as
this ONE minute moment is all that exists
this ONE infitessimal moment is all that matters
this simple common ordinary everywhere MOMENT is life
feel and connect to The Energy in Motion
feel it fully
let it in, feel whatever ENERGY it is fully and authentically
let it be, accept it as IF you have chosen it, NO resistance, no righteousness, no resistance,
let it go, ACCEPT does NOT mean to agree
Be discerning
Be content
Be ok and NON reactive
Let it go when good & ready and simply shift to the next moment.
Relaxed, inner calm, for nothing is under control.
It is all included and all OK as you trust YOUR TRUE NATURE to handle whatever eventuates.
You've so GOT this!
I see you I hear you I believe you I love you
Just do not project unspacious and ungracious noisy fractured insecure energy onto others.
Instead BE gentle, BE tender, BE real, BE receptive WITH your OWN TRue Nature FIRST!
Create The SELF LOVE to receive and
Be The SIMPLE SELF REALISATION
This 100% wholeness of consciousness is simply
Your own true nature
NO try hard
No thinking your way into it
No attached fractures
Instead
consciousness is a
Deep flowing refined discerning
acceptance
Of this ONE BARE MOMENT
That’s it!
No control
No noisy nosy Wah Wah
No control of thinking you know
No projecting or attaching from a void of leaky desperation
No seeking reaching HARD FOR attachment to anything external
No assuming or thinking you know whats gunna happen
No jumping to conclusions
No making shit up through limited stuck myopic lenses
No boring loopy loop of crisis to crisis merry go a round
No attaching assumptions to way back then
No attaching to A Leaky Project & calling it all for love
No mind split victims hiding behind societal by pass complex addictions
No wishy washy preening perfectionists
No people pleasing insipid no boundaries "empaths" trying hard to keep The Peace...
No unkind gas lighting assholes blunt sharp unswept shards
The less people you chill with
The Less Bullshit you deal with
Beware The Groupies
Beware The Group Think
Beware The Lost Lush Losers checking OUT of reality BY escaping with attachments
Beware Those Attached or addicted or stuck in wasted split labelled head spaces of repeated crisis, drama and chaos. (not clarifying short term venting, a very different and HEALTHY release of energy, just NOT a pattern of moan bitch and whine... ABOUT all of life...)
Instead
One whole all inclusive
Life worth living
is one simple
connection
TO YOUR REAL 100% SELF
First,
YOU COME FIRST
YOUR SELF CARE COMES FIRST
REALISING who you really are (The seed of Consciousness) COMES FIRST
once realised, simple, common, ordinary, everywhere,
You simply carry on chopping wood and carrying water
as YOU do...
Be
Light hearted & receptive paying BETTER attention
Listening,
Be
Light hearted
Receiving you FIRST
Be
Light hearted
soft & clear & tender & supportive
Be
As a Light House Beacon
Lit From Within
Flashes of Bright Light Brilliance
Not trying hard to Be seen
simply standing there
rock solid
tall and erect
a silent moving bright light
a light for those who choose to look out and see
a light clear and flashing BRIGHT
On Off On Off On off repeat repeat repeat
repeating ad infinitum
repeating FULL circle 360 degrees
a gain and again and a gain
simply showing up ON REPEAT
with NO reason or belief or fractured labels attached
clear concise reliable grounded gracious dependable lit from within
Hot as Hell
The Light MAY get
Mirrors reflecting as a visible
Light house
A Light Silver Vixen Magnetic
Day & Night simply
Attractive!
Connection
True is
Not predicated on
Sameness
Connection
True is
Not predicated on
Expectation
Connection
True is
Not predicated on
Attachment.
Rather simply
Connection is freedom to be
You & you, me + you = us,
Always free to be me + you equal us
Be ever so
Loosely connected
Not tired not tied not flat tyred
Not attached nor attacked nor labelled
No small Pigeon hole boxes
No staid stuck pedestal queens
No strap ons.
Pillions attached On their back!
Can sir?
Melon Noma?
Moll a long on the town bikes back
for a ditzy tippsy unbalanced ride
No no no no no tight attachments
Like that…
Rather
Connection is simply
Paying better attention
Rather
Connection is simply
Intuitively listening
With direct
Simple clarifying
questions.
I don’t know
One moment please
Can we have some more connection
To further align & be
Kind…
No rush
No worry
No stress
No hurry
Why be a loud insecure asshole at all?
Connect with your own self, first,
Connect with your own true nature, first,
Connect with your own wholeness, first,
Connect as your own first ever present consciousness
First
And what is consciousness?
“I”
The simple set PIN code on earth!
Once you crack your own code
The loopy loop stops
The crisis to crisis stops
The drama& chaos & inability to relate from love not fir love
Stops!
And what starts once the falsies stop?
You do.
The real you.
The whole full spectrum you
The no longer missing in action you
Get to know the PIN code of life & love & joy
Crack that ever so simple universal PIN code
Once cracked open like the seed syllable conceived at birth
There is no longer any problem
You return home in One heart Best
You drop spontaneously all that you are not o
You ditch & drop & dismiss
All that insults your soul
You no longer attach to leaky projects
Trying
Noisy
Drama
Crisis
Therapy
Workaholics
Avoiders
Addicts
Moaners
Whiners
Finger pointing assumers
All fall away because like
ONLY ATTRACTS LIKE
FROM HEAR ON IN!
Busyness of busy beavers pisses off
The vapid vacant voyeurs cease & desist
All that convoluted complex shit
just magically disappears
Because you now have self respecting self knowledge and self love as enough is enough
Will not entertain less than you now deserve.
Lower frequencies will simply
Shut up shop,
Evolve or die
Grow or perish
Connect not attach
So as a needy desperate gold digger
You may have
chased hard
Forced hard
Needy hard
And settled for a project
Taken for granted
Settled swamps
Ho hum once weekly chores to come
Boring boring boring
No play
No light hearted
No fun Or joy or spontaneous action!
Going through the loopy loop
Cracked up route teen
boring motions.
Don’t desperately hook
Up with a project
Then
Settled into crisis control
Then
Settled into patterns of neediness
Then
Settled into co dependent comfort
Then
Settled into swamps of “here we go again”
Patterns patterns patterns
Of attaching to a settled project
Patterns patterns patterns
Of forcing square pegs into round holes
Patterns patterns patterns
Of taking taking taking
Each others gifts for granted
Patterns patterns patterns
Of sharp sharded blunt sarcasm
Patterns patterns patterns
Of deflecting waaaaay too early to
Laughing it off or
Pissing it up or
Make up sex or
Not going there in the conversations
That are MOST needed
To be had.
I’m no longer 15
I want a full grown up
Mature partner
One who is
erudite articulate
Silly & joyous
Work
Full spectrum Alive
Not yet another
Bimbo gold digging
project
Not yet another
Pedestal preening princess
Not yet another
Drama Queen or
Loquacious leech or
Biting blood sucking leech or
a blunt cutting survival mode model or
A 15 year old raging whore moans or
drug addled adolescent asshole
Please
Know what you don’t want
And do that…
First
Thank you for your
Reminders… lived experience of
Life …
Clearly ocean
Depth
Discernment
Vast unexplored
Trenches & troughs & dark craggy rocks
Yes please!
Yes two the shape of water
Yes to not seeing The Water
Yes to simply Being
The flow &
Not in the flow
Only dead or listless fish go
With the flow
Taken controlled attached
Fish with no preference or priority or peace
Fish floppy floozy foolish
Fetid fish Sucked in buy cheap smelly bait
Silly inattentive Hooked lines & sink her
Instead
Step away from glaring
obvious
Baiting
Manipulations:
Bright baubles
Shiny vacuous
Happy clappers
Attached pillions & minions
Sent spy vs spy
Cold War
Ceased fire
Espionage
The secreting agents
Con Crete?
Licence to dill?
Lethal weapon?
Loose lips sink ships?
The coaches & roaches
The leeches & maggots
Mercenaries marketing
List pissed musty mist
Sold to the highest bidder
Auction hammers
Apocalypse Now
Interest?
Rates?
Ride tiedTied tied
Debt doubt gold digging
Lie
Down &
Take
Won
Four
England!
Pro Tour
Gulf sticks
Small flightless balls
Green keeper
A seeker
Below par
Hole in won
Club house
Get pissed a
Gain
No excuse needed
Butt gulf balls
Will do
Attached next
Slippery dancing
Pole, rich vain
Sugar daddy
Two up
Comes inn spinner
Cards straight flush
Poke Her handy
Crap tables
Lost Vegas!
Hi Score
Snorting lines
Elders Sold Out
Hammer block auction
Saves the day
As coins dribble out
A hole in the buck it
Dear Liza dear Liza
Well fix it dear shorny
Goat misty n horny
Watt happens inn
Vague ass
Stains inn
Vegas!
Craps one craps too craps free
Spin up top doll oar
Rich vain rich car Ching
Ka Ching ka Ching ka Ching
As coin slots a dry monied box
Suck that hived honey box
Dry
Can ewe bee leave IT?
Queen BBB
BUZZING N BUSY
DRONES & WORKERS
BENT GUN BARRELS
SEX PISSED DOLLS
SHOOTING BARBS
AND BLANKS AND BULL LETS
MAKE more WILD HONEY
MONEY.
Bags bags bags
Of her won armed
Spinning machine
Fruit salad
fresh perp
Pull
Bandit
A Supportive
Tenderness,
A Sincere
Wicked
Joyous
Fun loving full spectrum
Why so serious ?
Unless it is…
A Spacious
Gracious
Inner rock solid
Consciousness,
Unwavering
Consistent
Shows up
Not quick to deflect
Not anxious to escape
Not depressed addicted attached
Not sharp cutting sarcastic
Instead,
Whole,
Instead
True Natured
Instead
All encompassing
Flow fun well partnered
not attached to a project
Leaky fractured crisis drama chaos
projecting wounded
A lost in living
Inner child
Wah Wah noisy nosy
Wah Wah minding every one else’s
Busyness
Except their own,
A lost attached wounded
inner child
Still noisy nosy drama
attached
Seeking reaching journeying
Sharing projections
Unfounded
Floundering
No discernment
All expectations
No standards
All expectations
No discretion
All over sharing noisy nosy projections
Thinking they know
Thinking they can mind read
Thinking they know what’s gunna happen
Attached controlling insecure
Attached fractured flighty floozy
Attached mind split labelled loquacious
Attached to the baby bottle, red, white, milk
Attached to the pack, sheep, herd, follow,
Attached to juvenile delinquency
Attached to ham stir wheels 9 to 5
Attached to debt taxes death
Attached to enabling family friends or media
Attached to celebrity church or dogmatic belief
Attached to “success” of external judgments
Attached to “who says so” & do that following like reek reels Tok tick social Medea insipid shit
Attached to do as ewe are rolled… or tolled
Attached to … anything BUT your own true nature…
Settling for whatever they can get
Settling for second hand slops
Settling for following the pack
Settling for a project not a partner
Settling for crisis drama chaos dogma loopy loop seeking reaching trying hard to con troll the Uni verse
Settling for mind fractured fundamentalists
Settling for get pissed wipe out check ya later disappear lost in living scared as hell fractured daddy enabling mummy addicted sister emasculated brother mincing needy media curt unkind celebrity social messed up whining media same same same Rutted routines of
Take take take, do whatever it takes to stay attached to that’s the way we’ve always done it, following dead people who are still breathing
Following dead energies that are still attached to antiquated yester years
Following traditional tortures whether it makes any contemporary sense or not
Following celebrity goo Roos or masters or preachers or pastors,
all whining con troll ex spurts who THINK they know the One Way home
all telling all superior all trying hard to earn a buck… well fucked…. Or not
All think king royals, pillions, minions, attached grinding mills n molls on back, stuck on ewe like a plastered label a band aid a stitch it up;
Enabling
Enmeshing
Attaching
Allowing someone else to dictate terms & conditions
Selling your soul out to
A co dependent unconscious partner
Selling your true nature out to
A Leech a maggot a mosquito a vamp pyre…
Selling your soul to the cheap dopamine
Creed belief celebrity
All fake all folly all not who you really are
stuck ancient passed tense
Anxious angry jealous needy settled
Going threw the route teen motions
Living a half life & calling it living
Attached to an honest stoner
Attached to a pain relief
Attached to a sugar daddy golden digger
Attached to a leaky insecure project
Attached to comfort complex dis integration
(not connected to a whole individuated simple partner)
Attached to creed crumbs convoluted crapola
Attached to a dummy sucker warm bed end fuck buddy stress relief
Attached to a tinder dry hook up. forcing splintered square pegs to fit routed round holes
Settling for slops second best and two moaning whining insecure try hards
Instead
Let it all go
Perfectionism try hard
Procrastinating try harder
Projecting trying hardest to dump a whey on ewe as the one way home
Well fuck that shift!
Let it all go.
Let it in
Let it be
Accept NOT agree
Gentle tender
Boundaries are simple
Let go of all that is misaligned (it is ok, just NOT your cup of tea)
Let the insecure go,
leaking
over sharing
Lost in living a half life
Still To Be
Re parented (by them self)
Still to be
Returned to a simple Wholeness
Still to be
Encompassing of consciousness
Unlocking the ever so simple
Common
Ordinary
Everywhere
PIN code
Of humanity
“I”
The seed from which all else stems
Without you
No thing else exists
Without realising the
Seed
No thing else is real
So get to realise (not an attached intellect)
Who “I” am…
Crack that one simple pin code
Crack the simplest of simple human kind codes
Intrinsic holistic wholeness
Don’t be afraid to be simple
and drop all that bag age that ewe are not
Drop all the terms & conditions
Ewe never signed up for …
Drop the mincing mills attached pillions weighing you down
Drop the nosy noisy needy car park voyeurs
Drop the fucked up parents who dump their unresolved shit on their kids
Drop the expectations & mind reading & thinking you know buy assuming you know because you are stuck up in your head and making shit up to suit your wounds calm your insecurities project your unloved life into and onto your kiddies and then label them with an external experts label to avoid healing your own short, shift,
Self
Preferences are empowered
Preferences are preferred flavours
Preferences do not exclude
Preferences align choices
Preferences prioritise
Preferences expose fragility
Preferences clearly indicate fractures
Preferences clarify who to flow with
Preferences never force
Preferences are limit less
Preferences accept NOT agree
I prefer wholeness to fractured
I prefer a grounded fun loving calm
I prefer a self mastery of emotional reactivity
I prefer the unknown depths of a trenchant ocean
I prefer eclectic obtuse eccentric all encompassing wholeness
I prefer a not so serious erudition
I prefer street wise common sense
I prefer curiosity & wonder over staid, stuck, boring belief.
I prefer the unaddicted the not mind afflicted the not flighty floozy fucked I’m doozies
I prefer the unjealous unracist Un misogynistic
Un Try hardest creatives who give it all a go
More is more & less is a bore
I prefer unusual fresh vibrant
Flavours
I prefer expansive inclusive life moment
Experiences
I prefer those who don’t pretend to know
Non a projecting attached blunt sharp sharded project
I prefer
an articulate erudite expansive
A play full open to life
An equal who is connected & open to source
I prefer
One who is
Wholly committed to one
Who is also a whole play full
partner
NOT a fractured leaky sharp blunt harsh
project
By the way
Did I already say?
Preferences are hot AF
Know who you are
Know what you DON’t want
Know what you deserve
AND
DO NOT SETTLE FOD LESS
One whole simple Consciousness
One Complete true nature
One coming from love
not for love
Kind & aligned
Open & potent
Simple common ordinary everywhere
Consciousness is simply
A whole full life &
Ever so simple
Once we
connect & realise
Full spectrum alive
CONNECTED MULTI DIMENSIONAL
From heart 2 heart
NOT
Attach & know
Limited, loose, lost in living
still Wounded & needy & a dolt essence
Basic boring ONLY ATTACHED
From cock to cunt.
Witness the patterns
See the patterns
Trust the patterns
Back your own
lived experience
Listen listen listen
To the real whisper
That roars!
