Sounds Like Osho Meets Rilke Meets Warsan. From Love, Not For Love. If You Are Sweeter Than Solitude and Protect Each Other's Solitude. Shared Comfortable Stillness in Silence, Full Presence of Divine Be, Not Busy Do. Then We Mix Up Mischief On Wild Adventures. Simple Nature, A Paradox of Ease, "Elementary Dear Watson!" No Shit Sherlock!

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl

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It’s common to hear people get concerned about the pool of people from which to choose when they start to raise their standards, set boundaries, and operate from a much healthier and more aligned place. The pool *does* shift, and that can be deeply confronting. When we get clear on our boundaries, what’s acceptable and what isn’t, what creates expansion for us vs what doesn’t, we begin to honor authentic love and connection over that which distracts us from our insecurities. One of my favorite quotes from Warsan Shire reads “my alone feels so good, I’ll only have you if you’re sweeter than my solitude.” How’s your relationship with solitude? Get intimate with it, friends. When you enjoying being with yourself, then you can trust that those who enter are there to expand instead of distract. What it could look like? You won’t let just anybody occupy your space and time. You won’t go on that date just to go on it. You won’t spend time with someone who crosses your boundaries time and time again. You won’t shape shift just to have a partner. You’ll become okay with ending relationships that are dysfunctional or unhealthy. You’ll recognize that solitude IS greater than the things and people that ask you to abandon yourself or to play small. Yes, the pool might shrink, but it is so worth it. Don’t be afraid of it, it’s the place where alignment and healthy relationships are born. #mindfulmft ____________ Reminders: 1. The Get The Love You Want online course is up and running. If you want to improve the quality of your relationships (partnered or not) this deep dive is a perfect space. Discount code is “DISCOUNT50”. 2. This weeks MindfulTalk event is with my bestie @createthelove on 4/23 at 7 pm EST. We will be chatting about boundaries. This is a donation based digital event. Give what you can. All donations this week will go to a frontline worker. Please nominate someone below. Link in bio to sign up.
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LIGHT HEARTED 💕 LIFE’S SENSUALITY

Share With Me A ...

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
Share With Me A ...   Moment, magics, atom made of minute time.    That spark, the bolt, a distant laughing rumble,   that fall, the rise, a luna sea, kept humble.   Your knots and wiles Your depths, shared smiles,   I want two still soft animal Be, let bodies simply move as rhythms of Live, Laugh, full Love.   Share with me a dance, the One Scene  Mother, maker. Bourne brave, she Humbles Me, momentum mystery, Nature.   Gift us silence, water, steaming rises, Gift us lessons, lava, molten flowing, Gift Us you, all coming fury share dance of grace Ours, a humbled natural story.   Txx  
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I Know No Thing...

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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What opens inside you when you're willing to entertain the possibility that things maybe different than you thought they were is what I call the great internal space; a place where you come to know that you don't know. This is really the entry point into the end of suffering: when you become conscious of the fact that you really don't know. I mean that you don't really know anything - that you really don't understand the world, you don't really understand each other, and you ... really don't understand yourself. This is such an obvious thing when we really take a moment and look around. When you look at the world that human beings have created and how we relate to each other, it's so obvious that we don't know anything at all. . Everybody's going around pretending like they really know things, pretending like they know what's real and what's not, pretending they know what's right, pretending they know who's wrong, ...
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HEART CONNECTED NOT MIND ATTACHED

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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Mmmm GEE!  SPOT ON🤣 Sex doesn't mean much to her, emotional connection does. She can go forever without physical intimacy . Physical desire isn't her primary need. Her body responds to her heart, not the other way around. When her mind isn't safe, her body won't be available. When her emotions aren't nurtured, her passion disappears. What she craves is mental and emotional safety . She needs to feel understood before she feels desired. She needs to feel heard before she feels wanted. She needs to feel valued before she feels attractive. She needs emotional intimacy before physical intimacy. She doesn't need you to tell her she's sexy. She needs you to tell her what you admire about her mind . She doesn't need you to desire her body. She needs you to appreciate her heart . HEART 💕 HEART I FELT ONE TRUE COMMUNION IN SHARED STILLNESS  IN SHARED SILENCE  WE CREATED IT  PHYSICALLY TOGETHER Mmmm… GEE THAT MEDITATION DO YOU REMEMBER?  IN YOUR NEW LOUNGE R...
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IT ALL BEGINS IN THE…

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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Beyond Attraction:  The Sacred Blueprint of Divine Love Within every soul , there are four energetic bodies : the physical, the emotional, the mental, and the spiritual. True fulfillment comes only when all four are brought into alignment . And so it is with love. And so it is with union. In karmic relationships , the pattern begins from the ground up— from the lower centres . A spark of physical attraction lights the fire. That fire stirs the emotions. The emotions seek meaning, leading to an intellectual connection. But if the spirit is not aligned, the bond will eventually unravel. Without spiritual harmony , the relationship becomes a house built on shifting sands— beautiful for a season, but doomed to collapse under the weight of its own imbalance. Divine union follows a different path. It begins not in the body, but in the spirit. It is the recognition of the soul — the ancient memory of two beings who were always meant to meet. A vibration before a thought. A knowing befor...
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CLASSIC MOMENTS.

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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KEEP ON TRUCKIN’  DESCEND DECENT GROUNDED GRACE TWO HEAVEN,  COME A GAIN?  Why yes!  I feel I will,  Joy attracts joy  🙏💕🙏   AUTHENTICITY . ALIGNMENT .   WHOLENESS . INTEGRITY .  1. People stare at you. 2. Kids like you. 3. Animals feel safe around you. 4. Strangers tell you their life stories. 5. The room's energy shifts when you walk in. 6. You irriate toxic people by being authentic . 7. People envy you, and you don't know why.
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