Addicted to Stress? Patterns of Pricey Productivity To Service Debt? AKA "The Capitalist Cult Of Busy" Lead By The Captain of Kaos. Instead Be Max Well. Be Smart. Be 86 or 99 and Call Out The Chaos, Hey Chief...? Ewe No It Makes Cents....

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl

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Emotional addiction begins when we are raised in environments that cause an activated nervous system response. Stress, chaos, + emotional abandonment (they tend to come as a package) cause neurotransmitters to be released + create hormonal responses within the body. The body + mind learn these emotional states. We have something called the homeostatic impulse that keeps us thinking + repeating familiar behavior of our past. To repeat these emotional states. This makes us feel stuck. Powerless to change. All of this is a subconscious process. The trauma of experiencing chronic levels of these emotions makes us unable to feel other emotional states. This is why we (unconsciously) seek out the stress + chaos. We can finally FEEL. When we experience trauma there’s a dull, numb existence. Until we are in the familiar, then we become activated. We feel again. Feeling anything, even if it’s negative, is better than feeling nothing. Seeking relationships where we can experience emotionwal abandonment becomes all we know. We learn relationships. And if we’ve learned that we won’t be seen, heard, + connected with emotionally, we will repeat this pattern. In cycles. Addicted to our past, it becomes our future. This is nothing to be ashamed of. It’s a misunderstood addiction that requires work to release. Until we become conscious. Until we become aware that we are not our past, our patterns, or our coping mechanisms we needed to survive. I’ve worked with many clients stuck in this cycle. I lived this cycle for almost my entire adult life. If I felt peace, or there wasn’t some crisis in my life, I’d feel irritated. Restless. I’d pick at my partner. I’d connect with people where I could vent, complain, + re-live stress. For months in my future self journal I’d write “I am peace.” “Peace is safe” + I practiced this emotional state over + over again. It was awkward until my mind + body adjusted. Have you experienced an addiction to these cycles? #selfhealers
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LIGHT HEARTED 💕 LIFE’S SENSUALITY

Share With Me A ...

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
Share With Me A ...   Moment, magics, atom made of minute time.    That spark, the bolt, a distant laughing rumble,   that fall, the rise, a luna sea, kept humble.   Your knots and wiles Your depths, shared smiles,   I want two still soft animal Be, let bodies simply move as rhythms of Live, Laugh, full Love.   Share with me a dance, the One Scene  Mother, maker. Bourne brave, she Humbles Me, momentum mystery, Nature.   Gift us silence, water, steaming rises, Gift us lessons, lava, molten flowing, Gift Us you, all coming fury share dance of grace Ours, a humbled natural story.   Txx  
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I Know No Thing...

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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What opens inside you when you're willing to entertain the possibility that things maybe different than you thought they were is what I call the great internal space; a place where you come to know that you don't know. This is really the entry point into the end of suffering: when you become conscious of the fact that you really don't know. I mean that you don't really know anything - that you really don't understand the world, you don't really understand each other, and you ... really don't understand yourself. This is such an obvious thing when we really take a moment and look around. When you look at the world that human beings have created and how we relate to each other, it's so obvious that we don't know anything at all. . Everybody's going around pretending like they really know things, pretending like they know what's real and what's not, pretending they know what's right, pretending they know who's wrong, ...
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HEART CONNECTED NOT MIND ATTACHED

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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Mmmm GEE!  SPOT ON🤣 Sex doesn't mean much to her, emotional connection does. She can go forever without physical intimacy . Physical desire isn't her primary need. Her body responds to her heart, not the other way around. When her mind isn't safe, her body won't be available. When her emotions aren't nurtured, her passion disappears. What she craves is mental and emotional safety . She needs to feel understood before she feels desired. She needs to feel heard before she feels wanted. She needs to feel valued before she feels attractive. She needs emotional intimacy before physical intimacy. She doesn't need you to tell her she's sexy. She needs you to tell her what you admire about her mind . She doesn't need you to desire her body. She needs you to appreciate her heart . HEART 💕 HEART I FELT ONE TRUE COMMUNION IN SHARED STILLNESS  IN SHARED SILENCE  WE CREATED IT  PHYSICALLY TOGETHER Mmmm… GEE THAT MEDITATION DO YOU REMEMBER?  IN YOUR NEW LOUNGE R...
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IT ALL BEGINS IN THE…

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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Beyond Attraction:  The Sacred Blueprint of Divine Love Within every soul , there are four energetic bodies : the physical, the emotional, the mental, and the spiritual. True fulfillment comes only when all four are brought into alignment . And so it is with love. And so it is with union. In karmic relationships , the pattern begins from the ground up— from the lower centres . A spark of physical attraction lights the fire. That fire stirs the emotions. The emotions seek meaning, leading to an intellectual connection. But if the spirit is not aligned, the bond will eventually unravel. Without spiritual harmony , the relationship becomes a house built on shifting sands— beautiful for a season, but doomed to collapse under the weight of its own imbalance. Divine union follows a different path. It begins not in the body, but in the spirit. It is the recognition of the soul — the ancient memory of two beings who were always meant to meet. A vibration before a thought. A knowing befor...
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CLASSIC MOMENTS.

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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KEEP ON TRUCKIN’  DESCEND DECENT GROUNDED GRACE TWO HEAVEN,  COME A GAIN?  Why yes!  I feel I will,  Joy attracts joy  🙏💕🙏   AUTHENTICITY . ALIGNMENT .   WHOLENESS . INTEGRITY .  1. People stare at you. 2. Kids like you. 3. Animals feel safe around you. 4. Strangers tell you their life stories. 5. The room's energy shifts when you walk in. 6. You irriate toxic people by being authentic . 7. People envy you, and you don't know why.
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