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Your evolution and healing can often times feel like a threat to others. It can be deeply confronting to those who are committed to their programming. It can also trigger ego driven responses. This means that someone may personalize the message within the boundary. It means that someone may feel their connection to you is under attack. It may mean that what you are changing is shaking things up in their life that they’re not ready to change. So what happens? Emotional immaturity surfaces. Bring awareness to this. How they respond should not be what determines your healing and boundary setting. Do not let their reactivity be what makes you change your path. Of course our responsibility is to always check ourselves and make sure what we are presenting is aligned and grounded, but if your goal is to protect them while simultaneously honoring your needs you’re likely going to struggle. Your family may not be able to see it for years or decades. They may never get it. And, you may need to begin to sit in the discomfort of their pain presenting as immaturity. If you are committed to honoring your boundaries and your healing, you will likely experience the emotional immaturity of others. You will likely face some of the limitations that are present for them at that moment. The outcomes may be disappointing. The comments might be painful (like being asked “wow, what’s happened to you.” Or, “aren’t you too good for us now” or “I guess we were just awful parents and didn’t get anything right, huh?!” You get the picture. It’s hard stuff, friends. But it is the work. Wishing you grace as you navigate. #mindfulmft
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