You Either Have a Supportive Partner OR NONE at all... Pretty, Simple, Really.

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
Love rooted in neediness is transactional.
The unbounded heart, 
free of defenses and grievances,
is unconditional.
It asks for nothing because it is already whole.
Beware being rooted in attached MIND expectations and insipid neediness, 
(NOT directly expressed needs, which we all have)
Beware a greedy extractive survival energy. 
(the classic attached handbag ditzy doozy "gold digger" energy) 

When TWO DIVINE whole givers SUPPORT each other
NO MATTER How kindly different their unique beings are, 
that is GROWTH, that is alignment. 
Beware the myopic MIND limited. 
Attached, addicted, escaping, enabling, enmeshing. 
The un listeners and unreceptive old staid stuck energy. 
Thinking they know. 
Being gentle and kind to those with these myopic limits isn’t fake, 
it’s a sign of compassion and growth.
Forgive those who know not want they do. 
Forgive those who do not yet know who they REALLY are. 
Simple limits of attached minds. 
Meet any limits with compassion  
If they are simply an un listening dumb fuck, 
a mind attached labelled life victim, 
a materialistic snowflake, 
a taker of shady greedy character, 
quitters gunna quit and blame who ever they can, 
those minimal wage workers
working HARD for someone else's dreams
stuck by NOT realising YET,
 they are IN FACT
the captain of their own SHIFT. 
Your day to day choices create who you are, 
a moaning attached addict or life avoider?
or a LIFE LONG learner 
an ALIGNED AND KIND inner explorer, 
paying attention and creating your own dreams
by releasing all that YOU are not...
simply learn the less on the first time
trust your own intuition
trust what energy you receive (no reasons ever needed) 
trust the moment to moment
then 
move on. 
Fast. 
Continue to love the limited and limiting from a distance 
and of course WISH them all the best. 
Do NOT enmesh. 
Do not MIND attach. 
Do not even remotely allow ditzy doozy blonde floozy space cadet ENERGY to infect. 
Trust what you feel, trust what you intuit, trust what they DO NOT share... 
Do not THINK you are living attached to a half life and call it living... 
Level UP butter cup
Thank them
Bless them
Love them
believe them

also... choose to HAVE absolutely NOTHING to do with those of wavering character

mummy wounds and daddy wounds and sibling wounds and THINKING they know...
such a pity attached with MYOPIC limits... 
blaming shaming projecting addictive by pass checked out pissed stoned and simply LIMITING
NOT wrong
NOT evil
NOT bad
just limited

You can recognize someone’s attached MIND myopic energy 
while choosing not to add to the limits.

LIGHT HEARTED 💕 LIFE’S SENSUALITY

Share With Me A ...

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
Share With Me A ...   Moment, magics, atom made of minute time.    That spark, the bolt, a distant laughing rumble,   that fall, the rise, a luna sea, kept humble.   Your knots and wiles Your depths, shared smiles,   I want two still soft animal Be, let bodies simply move as rhythms of Live, Laugh, full Love.   Share with me a dance, the One Scene  Mother, maker. Bourne brave, she Humbles Me, momentum mystery, Nature.   Gift us silence, water, steaming rises, Gift us lessons, lava, molten flowing, Gift Us you, all coming fury share dance of grace Ours, a humbled natural story.   Txx  
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I Know No Thing...

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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What opens inside you when you're willing to entertain the possibility that things maybe different than you thought they were is what I call the great internal space; a place where you come to know that you don't know. This is really the entry point into the end of suffering: when you become conscious of the fact that you really don't know. I mean that you don't really know anything - that you really don't understand the world, you don't really understand each other, and you ... really don't understand yourself. This is such an obvious thing when we really take a moment and look around. When you look at the world that human beings have created and how we relate to each other, it's so obvious that we don't know anything at all. . Everybody's going around pretending like they really know things, pretending like they know what's real and what's not, pretending they know what's right, pretending they know who's wrong, ...
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HEART CONNECTED NOT MIND ATTACHED

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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Mmmm GEE!  SPOT ON🤣 Sex doesn't mean much to her, emotional connection does. She can go forever without physical intimacy . Physical desire isn't her primary need. Her body responds to her heart, not the other way around. When her mind isn't safe, her body won't be available. When her emotions aren't nurtured, her passion disappears. What she craves is mental and emotional safety . She needs to feel understood before she feels desired. She needs to feel heard before she feels wanted. She needs to feel valued before she feels attractive. She needs emotional intimacy before physical intimacy. She doesn't need you to tell her she's sexy. She needs you to tell her what you admire about her mind . She doesn't need you to desire her body. She needs you to appreciate her heart . HEART 💕 HEART I FELT ONE TRUE COMMUNION IN SHARED STILLNESS  IN SHARED SILENCE  WE CREATED IT  PHYSICALLY TOGETHER Mmmm… GEE THAT MEDITATION DO YOU REMEMBER?  IN YOUR NEW LOUNGE R...
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IT ALL BEGINS IN THE…

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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Beyond Attraction:  The Sacred Blueprint of Divine Love Within every soul , there are four energetic bodies : the physical, the emotional, the mental, and the spiritual. True fulfillment comes only when all four are brought into alignment . And so it is with love. And so it is with union. In karmic relationships , the pattern begins from the ground up— from the lower centres . A spark of physical attraction lights the fire. That fire stirs the emotions. The emotions seek meaning, leading to an intellectual connection. But if the spirit is not aligned, the bond will eventually unravel. Without spiritual harmony , the relationship becomes a house built on shifting sands— beautiful for a season, but doomed to collapse under the weight of its own imbalance. Divine union follows a different path. It begins not in the body, but in the spirit. It is the recognition of the soul — the ancient memory of two beings who were always meant to meet. A vibration before a thought. A knowing befor...
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CLASSIC MOMENTS.

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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KEEP ON TRUCKIN’  DESCEND DECENT GROUNDED GRACE TWO HEAVEN,  COME A GAIN?  Why yes!  I feel I will,  Joy attracts joy  🙏💕🙏   AUTHENTICITY . ALIGNMENT .   WHOLENESS . INTEGRITY .  1. People stare at you. 2. Kids like you. 3. Animals feel safe around you. 4. Strangers tell you their life stories. 5. The room's energy shifts when you walk in. 6. You irriate toxic people by being authentic . 7. People envy you, and you don't know why.
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