The Whole Wide World Worthin…

CARE ABOUT OTHERS FULLY 
Connection Consideration Compassion 

HOWEVER 
DO NOT CARE WHAT OTHERS THINK ~
MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS & 
LET SLEEPING DOGS LIE !!! 
THAT’S MAY WELL BE
THEIR ATTACHED BUSYNESS,
NOT YOURS! 
Unless of course they ask… 
And communicate clearly 
And invite in an alternative, diverse,
 different point of view 
And even then we can calmly agree
To disagree. 
In one universe 
If there really is only one universe… 
There is room to accept & include 
NOT AGREE! 
You may not align with another person’s 
POVs or core values or choices of behaviour 
That doesn’t mean they are good or bad 
Possibly still self ignorant 
Possibly still lost in living 
Possibly still with widely different values 
Or lived experiences or even level 
Of awareness? 
But to be in conflict? 
Agree to disagree
Calmly & considerately

Conflict
 argument
 expectations
Pre mediations
Manipulations
Neediness (NOT direct needs) 
People pleasing Projections 
Procrastination 
Perfectionism 
Mind reading 
Assumptions 
Over sharing early 
Loose boundaries 
Porous boundaries 
NO boundaries 
Gossip & Waffle 
Second hand energy 
Insipid energy 
Sharp harsh reactive energy 
Thinking you know someone deeply 
On the chapter you just walked in on 
(because you find shared silence impossible)
Are all possibly indicators of
Unconsciousness? 
immaturity? 
Insecurity? 
Limited lived experience? 
Who knows? 
I don’t pretend to! 
What anyone else has got going on within
Them self 
Is theirs FULLY! 
Let them own all of it
If the energy does not align consistently 
Move on
If the energy feels off, no reasons needed, 
Move on 
If the energy is clingy or heavy or aggressively preachy
 Move on 
If you feel drained AFTER sharing mutual time 
Maybe reconsidered doing that 
Connection less often? 

Simply mutually show up as the presence 
Mutually be interested and interesting
Mutually listen & receive 
Mutually laugh ones joyous ass off
Or cry or dance or get good n properly pissed off! 
Not in conflicted violence
EVER 
Even if one or both are affected by
drugs or alcohol
And the Lesson there is? 
Observe not absorb 
Walk away 
Learn the lesson the first time 
 paying attention is do simple 
Consciousness is even simpler 

So those “conflicts” are simply signs 
One or the other 
Or both 
Are mutually 
Stressed or insecure or drunk or manipulating 
Or a dead set unkind closed hearted 
Limited or limiting 
Lived experience

And all of that humanness 
Is more than ok! 

Wherever someone is 
On the spectrum of consciousness 
On the spectrum of anxiety 
On the spectrum of people pleasing 
Or perfectionism or 
Procrastination or 
Counterfeit empathy
Simply let them be! 
It is Not your role to fix heal advise or change them 
Change comes from within 
When each person chooses 
No more crisis drama chaos 
No more conflict convolution harshness 
No more dis integrated ego 

Simply witness & observe 
Isn’t THAT interesting! 
WONDER 
BE IN AWE MORE 
Be curious NOT a fixer! 
Be compassionate not a projector! 
Be connected not attached! 
Wonder listen receive 
With an
Open protected heart 
AND THEN? 
Simply 
Let them be 
Let them be 
Let them be 

Let them be 
Unconscious? 
Let them be 
Not paying attention 
Let them be 
Not listening with the heart 
Let them be 
Self ignorant assholes? 
Just do not go there again 
If tgeff TF energy 
Feels misaligned. 

Rather sad & unnecessary 
So why all this teen angst 
A bout “conflict” ?