D.O.A.O.
Life is About Choices.
Choices Show Other's What Our Life Priorities Are.
Choose Your Priorities and Be Your Own Happiness.
Create Your Own Style of Fun and Joy and Discerning Contentment.
Never Ever Over Explain Your Self.
No Reasons Are Ever Needed.
Consent ALWAYS Matters.
Boundaries prevent Resentment and No Is A Full Sentence.
Your Choices of Integrity and Authenticity Reflect Character.
Be Notorious, Destroy Your Reputation.
Choose. Moment To Moment.
To Be Happy. To Be Peaceful. To Be The Loving Kindness.
Never Be Afraid To Show Unkind or Misaligned Mudda Duckers The Exit Sign.
Quack Quack and DON'T Come Back.
That Shift is ALWAYS a Conscious Choice.
Maybe It Is also Your Priority?
To Simply Be. (Kind)
From Love, NOT For Love.
A Wholly Re Integrated True Nature is Comfortable in Sharing Silence
And Protecting Each Other's Solitudes.
Intimacy Is Choosing To Move Towards The Centre. After Exploring The Edge.
Rest, Reflect, Choose and Rise. Repeat As Often As Needed.
Breathe. Same Same. In and Out and Honour The Pause, More.
Creating and Holding Space For The True Self First. Is The Joy. Is The Happiness. From Love.
Wholeness, NOT Perfection.
Totality, NOT People Pleasing.
Absolutely, A Life Worth Living is Created By Flowing Moment to Moment Choices.
Explore The Reality.
Who Am I?
Really?
(Without The Inherited Conditioning, Without The External T&C's, which we all have, no biggy)
Then as seasons cycle, as human kind does as well,
"Pay Attention. Be Astonished. Tell About It". (Thanks Mary Oliver)
Be Kind. To Everyone.
And Absolutely Don't Be an Asshole.
Rule Number One? There ARE NO Rules... Except Be Kind.
Which is NOT A Rule, but rather a conscious moment to moment choice.
Radical Response Ability... ?
No More Finger Pointing, Blaming or Shaming. No More "Othering".
Grow Up and Own Your Shit. All of It. Mummy, Daddy, Any Family of Origin wounds. All of it.
Own the whole tasty enchilada of all your choices right up To Now.
Wholly, No Regrets,
Absolutely what has passed, every choice already made, is all included, accepted and Ok and has delivered you right to this ONE Moment.
Create A More Expansive Gracious Space To Hold It All.
Learn lessons, listen, refine and practice.
Put down all that no longer supports your choices.
Like those nasty unconscious unkind assholes...
especially the cynics, the sarcastic and unlistening moaning whining lush losers lost inn living victims. (especially those who repeatedly make shit house self care life style choices and then blame everyone else...)
To be interesting and interested.
To be open and potent, kind and aligned and aware of the present energy. Your own firstly.
Two Ears, Two Eyes, One Mouth. Creations Design Ratio. Apply Discerningly.
One Creature In Creation is Wholeness. Be That.
Unique NOT Special.
Whole NOT Leaky.
Authentic NOT Facades.
So Be Kind (to everyone) or STFU
Peace is Who Your (already) Are.
Stress is who you are trying (way to hard) to be.
Drop The Excess Balls You No Longer Have To Juggle.
Increasing Discernment, A Nuanced and Subtle eyes wide ears wider paying attention
Do Not Be Stuck Permanently Way Back Then, (or stuck up, anywhere TBH...)
Nor Projecting and Garrulously Galloping Way Out In Front.
Whoa back There Nellie! The Middle Path re centres, re grounds, revives The Mind Body and Soul.
Stay Well and Truly Grounded In Your Own Lane as One Sovereign Being,
No Lane Merging or Lane splitting, wholeness NOT perfection, it is all ok. Feel life fully. All of it.
What am I consciously choosing to bring to the table of life? Mine first and then shared with others.
Commune in Community Once Coming From a Healthy Place of Over flowing Fullness
Otherwise, really, just go home and get your shit together, YOU always come first. Sleep. Better,
Then Pay The Great ShiFt Forward From Love NOT For love. With No controlling projections.
Then Possibly Even Laugh more, no reasons ever needed,
smile gently, it keeps the assholes guessing,
create more innocent spontaneous mischief (for no reason)
create and share more fun and JOY and
THEN possibly even Get Off Your Mule or Pony or Horse or Donkey (or ass...) and Dance.
Sorry, not sorry, That last one IS compulsory.
No reasons ever needed.
Of course.
