JOY ATTRACTS JOY

By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl






Developing sensitivity is a slowing down. 

When we slow down, we intentionally enter into an inner silence. 

And in this inner silence any core beliefs about ourselves that are not aligned to this silence or wholeness are highlighted.

We can finally “hear” what challenges may be there to consciously integrate and welcome home. 

Wholeness is not a goal. It returns, if comes home, wholeness arrives when we simply realise, it has always been there, once we are receptive, once we slow down to allow grace to both find us, and enter. 

And remaining lighthearted and playful through this remembering, is simply being kindly self compassionate, to your own authentic true nature. 

How do you consciously choose to receive challenges? 

How do you handle challenges? 

What is your why? What motivates? What solutions? What actions? What choices? What priorities? There really is no right or wrong answers. Just your way. Kindly your way. 


HOW EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT PEOPLE MAY HANDLE CHALLENGES

1. Name the emotion before addressing the situation.

2. Lower your voice when someone raises theirs.

3. Ask questions before drawing any conclusion.

4. Do not bring up old arguments to win a current one.

5. Acknowledge what is valid in the other person's position.

6. Take a break when your body feels the conversation escalating.

7. Speak about your experience rather than their character.

8. Choose the right moment — busy or tired or hungry is never the right moment.

9. Never say "you always" or "you never" in a heated exchange.

10. Accept that being understood matters more than being right.

11. Circle back after the emotion has settled, not during it.

12. Make repair attempts early before resentment has time to harden.

13. Separate the person from the problem you are actually discussing.

14. Know which battles genuinely matter and release the ones that do not.

15. End difficult conversations with something that rebuilds, not just resolves.

Love has NO reasons attached. 

LOVE REFLECTS WHO YOU ARE! 

You may THEN choose to align with flowing, fresh and free energies. Love meets love. Full meets full. Totally Light hearted meets totally light hearted. Beauty full Boundaries meet beauty full boundaries. Absolute Kindness meets absolute kindness. 

From love not for love. 

To ALSO like someone 

is a totally different question though… 

I gotta like what I FEEL (totally, absolutely, fully) 

to them SHARE my full love. 

I accept not necessarily agree. 

But please? 

Never be an unkind asshole. 

Not so much unkind to me (for I can already handle my SELF love) 

Just don’t be an unkind UNLIKABLE asshole to others. 

LIKE WORK COLLEAGUES. 

Like employees. 

Like family friends and even your own children. 

If you can’t be graciously firmly consistently KIND 

If you can’t be sincere. 

If you can’t be grateful and tender and fiercely grace full… 

THEN simply STFU 

I simply do not want to be associated with limited negativity. 

The limited mind attached unkind fascists. 

The unkind preaching limiting misogynists. 

The insecure domineering mansplainers. 

The absolutely racist and unkind bigoted assholes. 

Simply explore your own inner world. 

How free are you? 

How integrated are you? 

How liberated are you? Really? 




LIGHT HEARTED 💕 LIFE’S SENSUALITY

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By PABATAI 時間 Tony Searl
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