May You Never Come Second In Your Own Life
"For many of us, our generational "curse" is avoidance. We come from people who just act like "it" didn't / doesn't happen. But pain demands to be felt. And somewhere along the line, a child will be born whose charge it is to feel it all. These are your shamans, your priests and priestesses, your healers.
You call them mental health patients and label their power as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder and the like. But these are the ones who are born with the gift of Feeling.... And as we all know, you can't heal the pain that you refuse to feel.
Dionne Shannette Wood
You call them mental health patients and label their power as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder and the like. But these are the ones who are born with the gift of Feeling.... And as we all know, you can't heal the pain that you refuse to feel.
Dionne Shannette Wood
We were speaking today about the “push pull” that can sometimes occur in a romantic relationship. This dicordant friction is not a rhythm or effortless flow that indicates deep connection.
We may feel the tug on our heart strings to be with someone and if they pull away a little we can feel even more drawn to them. This is the transactional kiss chasey of immature playground "love"
We may feel like this person, this being in love with them, brings us happiness.
We externalise, we project, we chase, we divest outwardly to a relative "love" that does not exist.
We may feel that the relationship and the person is the source of the love and happiness.
We may believe that "love" resides in them, happiness is "out there".
And we need to Be with them to feel that.
This is a veil of ignorance, the Maya which shrouds reality.
As we forget ourselves and focus more on the other and an outward expression of love,
we may perhaps lose the absolute connection with "I am the happiness" or “I am love” and that “through me, love and happiness and joy expresses itself”.
So then if you ARE the love, if you ARE the happiness, then it’s true these things cannot truly exist without you.
You are the creation as you are part of nature, already perfect, which is love happiness. This return to wholness is the return to love. And that requires self realisation, to do the work to realise The Absolute.
And you don’t need another for any of these "perfectly natural states" of love, or happiness, or joy or bliss to exist. You MAY however require a teacher/mentor/guide to show you where they are hiding.\
And remind you of what is your birth rite.
As a part of nature, which is perfecly whole, You already are all of that. You just may have lost your Self behind a multitude of veils.
If another also shares a self realised state of complete inner freedom, they too already know they are love, you may share these naturally whole and perfect inner states. You don't externalise.
It is beautiful and fulfilling to share your expression of these states equally, with an equal.
If they are The Love, and you are also, you can join together as Love.
Love is your common inner source.
We meet people where ever they are at.
If they too already realise they are the happiness, the joy, the bliss, we join and say we are sharing these inner "love" states together.
We are not draining the other or looking or taking love externally from the other, but instead we are giving and sharing and spreading an inner love from a place of fullness, a place of stillness, calmness, strength as common expressions from our well, our inner source of "love"
We recharge our own love vitality bucket with natural wildness and organic wellness; solitude, sleep, rest, fresh rain water, mindful breathing and movements, affirmations and consumption of healthy body fuels that our cells respond to postitively. We give ourselves every chance to Be Love.
With inner busyness and stress and worry, or exposure to poorer energetic choices, or negative self talk or consumption of body fuels that inhibit optimal cellular function, we lose vitality. We drain our ability to Be The Love.
When the illusion of separation (from happines/love/joy/bliss) is exposed, in our heart of hearts we come back to our true born innocent nature, which is our absolutely whole selves.
Including happiness, joy, bliss and perfection.
We come back to love no matter the external experiences.
You are happiness, you are love.
You may just need the gentle assistance of a teacher and their teachings to unlock what is already, you.
We externalise, we project, we chase, we divest outwardly to a relative "love" that does not exist.
We may feel that the relationship and the person is the source of the love and happiness.
We may believe that "love" resides in them, happiness is "out there".
And we need to Be with them to feel that.
This is a veil of ignorance, the Maya which shrouds reality.
As we forget ourselves and focus more on the other and an outward expression of love,
we may perhaps lose the absolute connection with "I am the happiness" or “I am love” and that “through me, love and happiness and joy expresses itself”.
So then if you ARE the love, if you ARE the happiness, then it’s true these things cannot truly exist without you.
You are the creation as you are part of nature, already perfect, which is love happiness. This return to wholness is the return to love. And that requires self realisation, to do the work to realise The Absolute.
And you don’t need another for any of these "perfectly natural states" of love, or happiness, or joy or bliss to exist. You MAY however require a teacher/mentor/guide to show you where they are hiding.\
And remind you of what is your birth rite.
As a part of nature, which is perfecly whole, You already are all of that. You just may have lost your Self behind a multitude of veils.
If another also shares a self realised state of complete inner freedom, they too already know they are love, you may share these naturally whole and perfect inner states. You don't externalise.
It is beautiful and fulfilling to share your expression of these states equally, with an equal.
If they are The Love, and you are also, you can join together as Love.
Love is your common inner source.
We meet people where ever they are at.
If they too already realise they are the happiness, the joy, the bliss, we join and say we are sharing these inner "love" states together.
We are not draining the other or looking or taking love externally from the other, but instead we are giving and sharing and spreading an inner love from a place of fullness, a place of stillness, calmness, strength as common expressions from our well, our inner source of "love"
We recharge our own love vitality bucket with natural wildness and organic wellness; solitude, sleep, rest, fresh rain water, mindful breathing and movements, affirmations and consumption of healthy body fuels that our cells respond to postitively. We give ourselves every chance to Be Love.
With inner busyness and stress and worry, or exposure to poorer energetic choices, or negative self talk or consumption of body fuels that inhibit optimal cellular function, we lose vitality. We drain our ability to Be The Love.
When the illusion of separation (from happines/love/joy/bliss) is exposed, in our heart of hearts we come back to our true born innocent nature, which is our absolutely whole selves.
Including happiness, joy, bliss and perfection.
We come back to love no matter the external experiences.
You are happiness, you are love.
You may just need the gentle assistance of a teacher and their teachings to unlock what is already, you.
